Does Platronic Friendship Exists?
The answer to this question is yes. The following criteria applies:
1) When you & your friend have totally no chemistry for each other.
2) You can then share all the things with this friend without seeing him as a potential partner in life.
So far, I only have one very close guy friend, which i can regard as having fullfilled the above criteria. He is my uni sch mate and we became close friends after much care and help for one another (there is also another gf in our grp).
I do have other platronic guy friends, whom perhaps in the past, I have interest in, but later faded off to no where.
On the other hand, i cannot believe on still maintaining a platronic friendship after a break up with ex-bf. As one would need space and fresh air to forget about the past, it is rather hard to still stay together as friends.
Recently, my friendship with a guy friend drifted away due to my "demand in clarity". Initially, I couldn’t understand how come he seems to distance away from me through his ungentlemenly manner as compared in the past. The reason is, he finds that he could still maintain this friendship if he could just keep me at arm’s length. Put simply, this is the only way he can do as he treasures our friendship.
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